The Search for Happiness

You can shop everywhere and buy many things,
But it isn't something you'll find. 
Happiness lives deep inside your heart.
It's a positive state of mind.

Self acceptance and self esteem are very important qualities of a confident person. When you maintain a positive attitude, a pleasant disposition, and a generous spirit, you will become especially endearing with a handshake, a smile, a hug, or a kiss on the cheek. You instantly make a friendly connection.

Don't go around bemoaning or lamenting your problems because you will become a bore and a dullard. Time is ephemeral and it is wise to exude wonder, curiosity, and enthusiasm instead. Happiness is a gift you give yourself. There will always be minor mishaps and major accidents that you cannot foresee because there are bumps and potholes in the road of life. How you handle the changes and challenges reveal your true self.  However, if you are experiencing chronic pain, suffering with a terminal illness, it becomes impossible to be happy.  If the wolf is at your door due to the weak economy or if you and your family are hungry, and homeless with circumstances beyond your control, the horrendous stress and constant exhaustion, lead to an unbearable existence.  Then happiness is only a word in the dictionary.

Depending on your well being in your mind and body, try to find a purpose to your daily routine. Fulfill a dream, goal or passion. Can you plant a small garden, take care of it and watch it grow? Do you like puttering in the kitchen and planning your daily meals? Oh, to have a window view and see a rainbow after the rain. Be content with all you possess, that is the secret of happiness. Life is too short no matter how long it is. You cannot change the past, you cannot predict the future. Embrace the present. Nothing is more highly prized than the value of one day at a time. When you value your own health, forgiveness is best for your heart and soul. You may not forget the hurt, but you can reflect on your sweet memories. Your choices and decisions determine the ride you take throughout your lifetime. Care less about the small stuff and above all else, love your family and friends who see you in the image you see yourself. When the older generation is questioned on their idea of happiness, many different answers and similarities are revealed:

• Money enough to take the fear out of paying bills
• Having a close knit loving, caring, and supportive family
• Being able to remain independent 
• To see and enjoy children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren
• Partaking of good times with good friends and good neighbors 

You take yourself wherever you go, so love who you are, where you are, and what you are doing. Count your many blessings, and make yourself a happy day.